ARE YOU A GROOM?

Many men have broken up with their spouse because they
end up not being the woman that they have dreamt of. But
they have forgotten that before a women gets married They won't
call the woman wife on her wedding day but Bride,
because it is the man that will Groom his bride to become
the wife.
That is why the man is called 'Groom', & the word
grooming has to do with patiently nurturing, teaching,
tending & helping someone to become what he or she
should be.
It is therefore believed that a man that is ready takes a woman to
the altar of marriage is matured enough to patiently Groom
his bride to become the wife. The man is not supposed to
just expect the Bride to automatically become the wife,
she must be Groomed.
Hence, many men built unnecessary expectations
when getting married, they want a magic to happen to their
wives, they want them to become what they have had in
mind about who they want their wives to be; not
considering the fact that, the woman does not know what
is on your mind except you teach her.
Their expectations are often too unrealistic, because they
forget that change takes time & they can only
expect something from someone that knows what they
really want.
So before you think of getting married or having a serious relationship, are you ready to Groom her? Have you given her time to understand you? Hope
you realise that a turtle will never become a hawk?
God often brings people that are opposites of each other together in marriage so that they can help each other in their place of weaknesses.
Men always be a groomer and don't always expect a finished good because a finished good may never have your ideology and may never make a good wife.